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How To French Kiss

Malcolm161 — Tue, 27 Feb 2007 18:01:00 -0600

How many of us can remember trying to teach ourselves to kiss? We would use a mirror, a basketball, even our forearms as we attempted to master the art of bestowing the perfect kiss. Of course, none of us would ever admit to all these secret attempts, and if anyone every spied us involved in such behavior, we very quickly came up with some excuse.

For those who find themselves in this same boat today, you can put step away from the mirror and put away the basketball. Help has arrived.

When it comes to learning how to French kiss, there are a few basics to keep in mind. Here are some tips that will help you get into the swing of puckering up and participating in an enjoyable French kiss.

How To Buy Condoms

Tiny Dancer — Thu, 09 Aug 2007 23:08:57 -0500

Condoms. Just about everybody buys them at some point, and just about everybody gets embarrassed, confused or frustrated by the experience. Many men and women feel ashamed buying condoms because of our cultural attitudes labeling sex as dirty, and certainly not something to flaunt in public. That's a shame, because except for a few test tube babies, sex is how each and every one of us got here! Others find themselves confused by the variety of condoms available, or are frustrated by past experiences that didn't go so well. So let's talk condoms and clear up some of the confusion--it'll go a long way toward clearing up any reluctance you might have about using one, and hopefully spruce up your sex life as well. Sex is a good thing--and knowing your condoms can be a great way to add a boost to your sex life and protect yourself and your lucky sex partner from horrible things like children and disease!

How To Come Out To Family and Friends

Ashtyn198 — Fri, 05 May 2006 20:22:00 -0500

One of the biggest struggles that gays, lesbians and transgendered individuals have to face is coming out to their family and friends. Of course, their ability or inability (in some cases) to come out to their family could depend on a number of factors.

If they are in a socially accepting family, they may come out the moment they realize and accept that this is who they are. However, if their family is not so accepting, it may cause them to hide that side of themselves when they should not have to. They should be allowed to be who they are.

Coming out to friends, people in the workplace and anyone else in your life can be difficult because you never know what reaction you will receive. Some people will be accepting and others will feel lied to because they made the mistake of automatically assuming you were straight.