How To Make Her Fall in Love

Love is an emotion of the heart, not the brain, and therefore it cannot be forced. You can, however, create a relationship where she may be receptive to stronger emotions. Try these steps so you can try to make her fall in love.

1. Get her attention. If you’re looking for love, hopefully you already have this step under control. If not, get her attention and interest before you start considering love. Once you get to know her, you may not want her feelings directed at you.
2. Listen when she talks. The greatest way to make your interest known is to listen when the woman talks to you. Women volunteer information and if you are willing to listen, you can determine her likes, dislikes and what really matters to her.
3. Make her your focus. Don’t just listen; show her that what she says matters to you. If she mentions an interest in sushi, try taking her to your favorite sushi restaurant sometime. If she mentions her favorite movie, put it on your list to watch for your next movie night. By showing that you heard her, she gets to know her central place in your life.
4. Get to know her friends and family. If she’s letting you meet the people closest to her, she is interested enough that she wants to learn their opinion of you. Be outgoing when you meet her friends and get to know them. If you attempt to put distance between her friendships, she may decide you aren’t worth getting close to.
5. Let her know you appreciate her gifts. This doesn’t just mean showing appreciation for her body assets. Everyone has gifts. Is hers an appreciation for classic rock or maybe an understanding of tax shelters or Native America art? Whatever her gifts may be, let her know that they are part of your attraction to her.
6. Show you trust her and that she can trust you. For some, trust is essential to love. Trust is a lot harder to show than distrust. Show yours by wishing her a good time when she heads out with her girlfriends and giving her space when she needs it. Be trustworthy by being where you say you will, when you say you will.
7. Let her know your feelings. If the woman is shy about taking a chance on you, let her know your feelings. It’s tough to offer your feelings up when you are unsure of the response. If you make the offer with a little romance tossed in, you may be pleased with the result.
8. Give her time. Sometimes feelings take time to grow. Be patient when getting close to the woman you are interested in and give her time to get to know you as well. If she needs to be sure of her feelings, time will help her get there.

Remember you cannot force love. You can only provide it with the chance and the interest to grow. Let the woman know your feelings and interest.