Imagine this: you’re sitting at a bar and you spot a man who you think is perfect for your taste. What do you do? For some women, attracting men at a club or bar can be difficult. Usually, they are shy and are not very experienced, so they don’t know what to do in situations like these. If you have a problem with attracting men in bars or clubs, read on to find out how you can meet the man of your dreams.
Here are some tips on how to attract men at a club or bar:
- Start at home. What you wear is very important if you want to attract men at a club or bar. Make sure to wear comfortable, yet stylish clothes. Don’t go for clothes that are too faddish and over the top. It’s best to add a little bit of personality to latest trends. This way, you can shine through whatever you’re wearing. Also, always wear clothes you feel good in. Don’t go for pure aesthetics, as if you are not comfortable with what you’re wearing, you won’t look good. Also remember that clothes that are too revealing will give the wrong impression.
- Don’t go overboard with make up. According to surveys, most men prefer a simple look when it comes to make up. However, you should also consider that you are going to a place with darker lighting. It is best to highlight your beast feature, and go easy on the rest of the face. If you have nice eyes, try highlighting them by wearing eyeliner, mascara and some eye shadow. Go easy with the rest of the face by wearing neutral colors on the lips and the cheeks. Luscious lips can be complemented by a lipstick and some lip gloss. Just remember that your face shouldn’t be caked with make up after you’re done applying.
- Learn how to be a good conversationalist. It’s not just the looks that matter; its what comes out of your mouth. You should always know how to keep a conversation going. Looking good will not ensure that men will be attracted to you.
- Don’t stress it. Be confident in yourself and don’t over think the situation. The best way to attract men is just to have fun. You’re at a bar or club to have fun, so that’s exactly what you should do! Don’t sit around and wait for men to be attracted to you - that should come naturally. Try going out with your friends. This will put you in your natural element, so you feel more relaxed and comfortable.
Looking good is not necessarily a sure way to attract men. You should have the personality to go with it. Be confident in yourself and don’t sweat it. If you don’t feel good on the inside, you won’t look good on the outside. Start with yourself and men will take more notice. Follow these tips and men will be asking you for your number in no time.