Finding the right childcare provider for your child is much like finding a man: you have to go through a few bad ones before you find the one! Once you do, it's important you establish a good relationship with your child's sitter. After all, this person will become a center of influence for your child, seeing that they'll be spending several hours together. Here are a few things to ensure you build a good relationship with the sitter.
- Have an open line of communication. Right up front, discuss your expectations so there's no confusion regarding how you want some things done. Your sitter has to know and understand your policies on discipline, bedtime, as well as be clear about other chores she is expected to perform. This also means that you have to be open about any concerns your sitter may have, such as any disciplinary problems with your child or if she has any curfew limitations. It's best to avoid issues upfront by discussing it openly beforehand.
- Pay a fair wage. Wages for baby sitters vary by state. Ask your friends how much they are paying theirs so you have an idea. The age and skill level of the sitter will also factor in. if you think your sitter is doing a great job, go ahead and hand those few extra dollars. If you know you went well over the amount of time you discussed, pay the fair overtime hours.
- Be considerate. Don't leave your house a mess and expect her to clean up. Allow her access to the television as long as the children are asleep. Leave her some snacks she can eat. Call in early if you know you're running late so she can adjust her plans. Some rules such as no boyfriends or friends over should be enforced.
- Teach your child to respect the baby sitter. Problems arise when your child doesn't get along with the sitter or undermines her authority. You must establish with your child that the sitter is there to help and must be obeyed. You sitter will appreciate being valued and respected.
- Reimburse them for extra expenses. If your sitter takes your child out for the afternoon and buys him snacks or balloons, pay that amount back to her. The entertainment expenses of your child shouldn't come out of her pay.
- Say thank you. Praise your baby sitter for a job well done. If she washed the dishes or did anything extra, acknowledge her efforts. Saying thank you is simple but can make someone feel special and appreciated. You may even give her a little present as a token of thanks on her birthday to let her know you think highly of her.
Once you find a baby sitter that you and your child love, take care of her and she'll return the favor. The care and attention she gives your child is priceless, so give her what's she's due, treat her with respect, and you'll have a long working relationship for years to come.
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