Oh yes, the activity most men procrastinate on--foreplay, more specifically, fingering. This long lost art can make you a hero to your partner. More importantly it can have benefits for you as well. For instance, if you have never reached the point of sexual intercourse in your relationship, genital massage can help her ease out of her fears and get you laid.
If you have started having sexual intercourse with your partner, this also helps. Fingering her helps you identify the rhythm that works best for her. You can also feel for the best spots that help her orgasm faster. The benefits you will receive are endless. For one, this will convince her that you are a magnificent lover. This can also bring you closer together and lead you to a deeper relationship together. Let us not forget that she will always be happy to return the favor.
Here are some helpful tips to give your woman the best fingering she has ever experienced
- Start lightly. Get her in the mood. Soft wet kisses are always good. Try a gentle massage before putting your attention to her vagina. After you are done with the whole body, gently massage the mound of her vagina. After this, form a cup from your hands as though you are feeding a pigeon from your hand. Tell her to gently ride your hand.
- Feel the outer rim of her vagina. This area is called the labia. Feel for wetness. This is a good way to gauge how aroused she is. Then, apply some lubricant to the tips of your finger. This will help your finger smoothly move into her. On the upper part of her vagina, feel for the clitoris. It should be a bean-like bump covered by a small hood. Try massaging that gently.
- Insert your finger. You can feel her becoming wetter as you continue. This means that you have been doing great and she likes what you are doing. At this time, you can insert you finger into her. You can put in up to your second knuckle. Just remember to be gentle. While you do this, you can continue to massage her clitoris using your thumb. This will give her an amazing orgasm at the end. Also while your finger is inserted, massage her G-spot. This should be a round walnut-like wall at the top of the vaginal wall. This spot is very sensitive and should work well to bring her to a climax.
- Move with her. At this point, she will be thrusting and moving her hips. Unlike men, women move and act more like sex during gentle massage. Try to time the up and down motion of your fingers to meet her thrusts. The correct rhythm will help her climax faster. Incorrect timing can lead to the loss of orgasm. You should feel her tighten up as well as moan as she nears orgasm. Continue on with the same rhythm even after she has climaxed.
Fingering can be a fun and exciting way to grow your sexual relationship. If you do this well, eventually you will get the key to the city.
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