You don't really have to do a somersault or eat a stick of fire to impress your date and make him recognize your best qualities. Of course these are exaggerations but what is meant here is that it does not take that great effort to make your date notice the best in you. As they say, what more is less and what's less is more. So just observe moderation. Try to impress your date but don't overdo it.
The golden rule here is to try to be just you. Well, yes, this formula is guaranteed to work however there are instances when you need to do something to accentuate the "you." This means that for women, if you are not the usual "make up girl," try to at least put a little eyeliner on to emphasize your eyes and some dabs of lipstick to flatter your mouth. Men on the other hand can get a tidy haircut or, if they sport long hair, at least tie the hair back to give a neat look. To say, "well, this is just me" when your nails are dirty and smudged with paint or dirt (an indication that perhaps you are an artist) is showing disrespect to the other person. Being presentable in a date is the least you can do to demonstrate respect to your date. Appearing in a sloppy dress or un-ironed shirt is a big turn off and will send unpleasant messages to your date. Remember to dress properly without being overdressed or underdressed. Wear comfortable clothes and shoes and use accessories that will complement your attire.
Another sure way of getting your date to recognize your best qualities is by wearing a special perfume with mild fragrance. Scents are said to have alluring effect on the opposite sex especially when worn with just the right strength. Make sure also that when you are asked for a second date you are wearing the same scent that you wore the first time. This is to get your date identify you with that particular perfume, which you may not know, can help in getting him or her hooked to you.
When already seated at dinner or lunch or drink, act naturally but hold back a little with personal antics like letting out an eerie laughter, saying a sick joke or uttering unfamiliar expressions that may baffle your date. Communicate with him. Look at his eyes when conversing and try to sound as convincing as possible, but don't fake intelligence or know-how about certain matters that you are totally ignorant about.
Bring out pleasant topics. If your date however initiates topics that you are not comfortable with, make the initiative of changing the subject in a most polite way. Never commit the mistake of gossiping about your friends, family, neighbors or enemies. Your date will surely not ask you out again if you start talking about people behind their backs. Observe etiquettes but don't be too conscious of the nitty-gritty. Laugh when you have to laugh, but don't make embarrassing sounds that can call undue attention.
Getting your date to recognize your best qualities is not a hard thing to do. If you only follow the basics you can never go wrong and you will definitely have a swell time!
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