How To Get Him to Propose

Okay: you have found Mr. Right and you want him to propose.  We all know that getting a guy to pop the question can present a challenge.  As a savvy woman it is important to have a few tricks up your sleeve.  There are ways to make him start thinking about your future together.  Sometimes all your man needs is a clear picture of what your life together holds.  Here are a few steps to get him to propose.  Think of it as a paint-by-numbers for that perfect picture.

Step 1: Move in together.  Now is the time for the two of you to go apartment hunting or, better yet, look for your dream home.  Let him know that you want to wake up next to him every day for the rest of your life.  If you are already living together, moving is a chance to really combine your lives.  Show your commitment by giving up your shoebox full of old love letters.  Maybe he will even get rid of the bean bag chair that leaks beans.  Plus, we all know how fun it can be to play house.

Step 2: Discuss your family planning.  Let him know whether you want 3.5 kids and a dog or if you want to be fun and child free for the rest of your life. Maybe have a babysitting date.  Borrow a niece or nephew and get him to help with a zoo date.  This will be a great way to bring up the subject of children and to see your man in action.  Make sure that you are on the same page about when in your life you want to start your family.  If you are not ready and he is anxious, just remind him about how fun babymaking practice can be!

Step 3: Start talking about your dream honeymoon.  Compare ideas about where you want to go. Bring home some travel brochures, or get online.  Get him thinking about all the fun things that you will be doing during the first week as husband and wife.  Guys aren't that interested in our dream weddings, but a man who is in love with you is guaranteed to get excited about the honeymoon - especially if you're going to have a white wedding.

Whether he's been holding back out of fear of commitment, or if he just isn't picking up on your subtle hints, these three easy steps are sure to get your man to pop the question.  

Get ready, girls, because the next words you will be saying are, "I do".