How To Give a Handjob

Your partner is horny and he is looking to you for some loving. He goes in slowly showing his intention. Kisses you slowly on the lips and goes for the back of your neck. Sadly, you are not having any of it.
You might have a headache; you might have your period, be tired, or even still be sore from the last time. Whatever reason it may be, it is okay if you do not feel like sex. It happens to the best of us.
The only problem you have here is, he’s still in the mood for some horizontal tango but you aren’t. What is the solution to this dilemma? How about an old-fashioned hand job?
Just because it isn’t normal sex does not mean that a handjob needs to be less intimate. You can keep your man happy with a handjob and there is no sex necessary. If done properly, it can be as intimate as the sexual act itself.

1. Get him excited. Start by building up excitement. Caress his body as though you are having sex. Show him that you are there to please him and not just there get things over with. To start with, do not touch his penis. Wait for the last moment when you yourself cannot hold back.
2. Prolong the excitement. When he is begging for it, wait a minute more. You want him to want it so much that it almost feels like he is going to explode if you don’t give him a hand job.
3. Tease him. Touch the penis as though you touched it by accident. Then lightly touch it purposely as you intently watch for his reaction. Touch it on the shaft lightly just to get a feel of the penis. If he is at a point of high arousal, this should feel very enjoyable for him. Switch between light touches and teasing at this point.
4. Lube up. Grab some water-based lubricant and place a generous amount on your hand. Hold the shaft of his penis to coat it with the lubricant. Lubricant helps your hand slide smoothly on his penis. Without lubricant, a handjob can be painful for him. Keep the lubricant handy because you might need to reapply it again later.
5. Up and down. Move your hands from the base of the penis to the frenulum. The frenulum is the most sensitive part of the penis and can be found at the base of the head of the penis. Move your hand in a constant rhythm:  quick, quick, slow, or quick, slow, or any other variation.
6. Keep it intimate. Remember to look at your partner constantly. Reassure him that you are there for him. This reinforces to him that you enjoy pleasuring him. Ask him how it feels and make the act all about your partner.
7. Bring him to climax. As you move your hand up and down, you should feel the pressure rising. Continue moving your hand in a steady rhythm as you slowly speed up. Do not stop -- maintain the rhythm. A fall-off on the rhythm or a sudden stop might ruin the experience for him.

Once he finishes, don’t leave him just yet. Share some intimate conversation. Maybe even help him wipe off. For sure, he won’t hesitate to return the favor.