The chase is what all playboys live for. The chase of a woman, both wary of your attention and excited about the result, is to die for.  However, the chase is never as easy it seems. Not everyone is bestowed with Casanova’s charm or Don Juan’s good looks, or more importantly, Austin Power’s mojo. That is why some people need to work harder on it.

It doesn’t necessarily mean that you are hopeless when you are not that pleasant to look at or if your social skills still leave something to be desired. You just need to work on it more than the average person. Thankfully, we have several useful tips you can use to impress a girl.

  1. Hygiene and good grooming. Start with your outer appearance. A good product doesn’t really sell well with bad packaging. Remember, you are trying to impress a girl here, not repulse her. Hygiene goes a long way. Brush your teeth, Floss and take a shower. Get a decent haircut. Don’t go to those $2 haircut places. Invest in yourself and pay decent money for a haircut like a normal person. Wear clothes that actually fit you. Remember, showing off your butt crack in public is not cool, no matter how breezy you feel.  Now if you aren’t sure what to wear, ask for help. If you have a sister or an older friend, ask them to help pick out clothes for you. Believe me, they will love it and you don’t even have to ask twice. You will be like a personal, life-size Ken doll.
  2. Time to focus on you. After you improve on your outer appearance, it is now time to work on your inside. Attitude works so be confident. Don’t be arrogant though. Nobody likes a blowhard. Just believe in yourself and everything will fall into its place. Being more confident lets you show your true personality. You can showcase your unique sense of humor when you are confident.  The funnier you are and the more confident you get, a lot more fun you will be to be with. Remember to be able to impress a girl, you must be impressive to yourself first. It is good to invest in yourself by reading self-help books and expanding your interests. After all, there is only one you and you are stuck with him.
  3. Look at how you interact with her. If you are trying to impress a girl, you must always remember to put the focus on her and not you.  She is the object of your desire and she needs to know it. Be romantic but not too cheesy. Remember to always respect her. She will like that. She doesn’t want to be treated like an object. She needs to know that you understand the she has feelings and dreams just like you.

I guess what I am trying to say here is that the impressing a girl is hard work but if you continue at it and do well, then it is all worth it. It is worth it because as you impress her, you can win her heart and gain the love of a good woman.

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