Tonight's the night! You want to make hot passionate love with the man in your life. Well, don't wait for him to make the first move. Be adventurous and seduce him for a change. More often than not, men are eager for women to be the more aggressive partner, and are actually turned on and flattered when the woman in their life is the one to initiate sex.
Start to initiate sex with your man long before you even get to the bedroom. Write out a short and sexy X-rated note detailing exactly what you'd like to do with your sweetie, then slip it into his briefcase, his suit jacket pocket or his lunch-pail and let him discover it on the job. Ooh, the anticipation of what awaits him at home will make it hard for him to keep his mind on his work, but you can be sure he will make it home on time, or maybe even a little bit early and feeling eager. Men are creatures stimulated by visual pleasures, so a photograph of yourself taken au natural or wearing some sexy new lingerie can also do the trick. Leave a copy of a sex manual or a book like "The Joy of Sex" in a plain brown wrapper on the front seat of his car, with instructions to "pick out his favorite chapter" and promise him you'll be ready, willing and able to accommodate him later that evening.
Once your man is at home, design a treasure hunt with clues starting at the front door and leading him to the bedroom or someplace else in the house where you've never thought to make love. Perform a strip tease for him once you're in the bedroom, or take charge and undress him, doing it very slowly and deliberately.
The element of surprise is important when initiating sex with your man. The two of you might be reading in bed some evening, and you can start to run your hand up and down his thigh without taking your eyes from your book - he'll get the message but quick.
Excuse yourself and go into the bathroom and change into a sensual see-through nightie, then call out that you need him and ask for his help in removing it. Or draw a bubble bath and call out on the pretext that you need something, and when he enters the bathroom, pull him into the tub.
Pull out a pair of toy handcuffs or a silk scarf from your dresser drawer, and tie him to the bed while you pleasure his privates with your tongue or a feather. Many men have bondage fantasies in which they want to play the submissive role.
Initiating sex with your man can breathe some fiery passion into an otherwise ho-hum sex life. Your man will thank you for it!
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