How To Learn Great Positions for Better Lovemaking

By Mina Sorvese

Lovemaking is an important part of having a healthy, happy relationship. Figuring out the positions that turn your partner on can be the key to a great sex life. Experimentation with different positions and styles can help you both in finding one that works the best.

The classic position is the guy on top. It is a great position for better lovemaking. This provides the man with absolute control of his orgasms. Change this position up a little. Have the woman wrap her legs tightly on the man's butt, digging her heels into it to allow for deeper penetration. This also is a huge turn on for him. Have her move her hips in circular motion to stimulate a better orgasm for herself. Have the man put his hands right on or above her shoulders. This can allow for him to achieve deeper penetration.
The woman on top is a classic. This woman in- control position is a great position for better lovemaking. Have the guy lay flat, tell him to participate by thrusting his hips upward. Grab onto his shoulders to help you with reaching climax. Put lubrication on your clitoris before starting to help keep it stimulated so that you can have multiple orgasms. This is because while riding him, your clitoris is constantly being stimulated, this prevents it from getting sore.
The doggy style position is a common favorite. It is a great position for better lovemaking. Have him kneel behind you holding onto your hips while penetrating you. Him holding onto your hips can allow for deeper penetration. While he is penetrating you, lean forwards onto your arms. Then sort of move backwards bouncing your hips in a fluid motion. With this rhythm it can be easy to stimulate orgasms for you both. If needed, have him put his hand around you to stimulate your clitoris while doing this position.
The standing position, with the woman standing backwards, is another great position for better lovemaking. For better stability and rhythm, the woman should hold onto something like a cabinet, dresser, or counter. Standing , turned around, bent forward in front of her partner, holding onto the object. He can hold onto her hips and penetrate her this way. The woman can also, move her hips in rhythm while leaning onto the counter.
A risky, fun position is on the stairs. This is another great position for better lovemaking. Depending on the man's height go up a few steps from the bottom. Have the woman put her leg or legs over the guys shoulders. He can hold tightly to your hips while penetrating. Since you are on the stairs he is leaning onto you more, allowing for the penetration to be deeper.
Another fun, favorite position is in the shower. While showering together, drop the soap. This can allow him to be playful. Let him enter you from behind, holding you gently on the hips. Being in the shower allows him to penetrate you with a softer, more gentle disposition.

These all great positions for better lovemaking that can enhance your relationship.