How To Leave Them Wanting More After a First Date

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No one ever said that dating would be easy, and those who are currently involved in the dating world know that there are many ups and downs through the whole process.  Whether you are dating for fun or to find your true soul mate, you always want your dates to go well and end well.  After all, the goal of dating is to keep the other partner wanting more, right?

Fortunately, leaving your date wanting more isn’t as hard as some make it out to be. With some proper planning and a respectful and genuine attitude, your dates will be wanting to spend more time with you.

First and foremost, make sure that your appearance is clean and well kempt.  Appearance is the first thing that people notice and a large factor in a successful date.  You want to show your date that you prepared for the outing and that it’s important for you to take care of yourself.  Make sure your clothes are clean and appropriate and that your hair is fixed.  Men can shave before a date, while women can apply makeup.

Another way to leave your date wanting more is by having a genuine and down-to-earth attitude.  Be open minded and listen to what your date is saying.  You don’t have to agree with everything your date believes in, but certainly avoid bold statements or outwardly disagreeing with your date.

To help keep the conversation flowing in a positive direction, stay away from topics that can strike a nerve, such as politics or religion.  Ultimately, you want to show your date that you are easy to talk to and approachable with a variety of topics.  Avoid talking about your ex and limit talking about yourself.  Instead, ask questions about your date to show that you are interested in him or her.

Another way to keep dates wanting more is by leaving some mystery for the future.  Instead of planning for another date while on a date, leave the topic more open and vague.  Certainly show your interest in seeing your date again, but tell him or her that you’ll be in touch.  After all, calling or texting too much leaves for little suspense in a new relationship.

While the intense sparks may have you wanting to see your date each day, it’s important to stay grounded and save time for yourself and your friends.  Focus on hobbies that you enjoy that your date may not.  And definitely leave time for your circle of friends who should continue to play an important role in your life.

Finally, keep your date wanting more by having new and exciting ideas to try for date nights.  The same routine can become boring quite easily, so shake things up by taking part in a dance class, having a picnic or helping out at a charity event.


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