How To Maintain an Erection

A man’s penis is the manifestation of a man’s ego.  In fact, the larger the penis, the larger is his ego.  When it stands fully erect, that is the time when he is the proudest. It is the center of his manhood because without it, he is not the man he wants to be.

Even though his penis is a source of his pride, it is also the source of his insecurity.  When it is small and flaccid, a man retreats to his shell. He feels inferior compared to other men out there. He would even feel as though he cannot satisfy his woman.  This makes absolute sense because without an erect penis, he cannot make love to a woman. Just imagine how embarrassing it would be if you could not maintain an erection.

With these simple steps, you can learn how to maintain an erection. No matter what distraction is in your way, you can push through and maintain an erection. Go plow that field of dreams and spread your seed of ecstasy.

1. Assess your hardware, pardon the pun. Look back in time to see whether you have had a real erection before. If you have not had an erection before, then you might need to get professional help. Go to an urologist to have your plumbing checked.  If nothing is wrong, anatomically you might need to go to a psychologist. If you have had an erection before and you are experiencing problems, look at your medicine cabinet for medicine that might inhibit erections. Talk to your doctor about your medications.
2. It is all in your mind. If a problem maintaining an erection is not physiological, then it is most likely psychological. A large portion of the problem comes from the fear of not being able to maintain an erection.  Double whammy there, huh?  Squash that fear by talking to your partner about your problem.  And even better, make the erection a small portion of the lovemaking process. Set a limit on your sexual experience to everything but penetration. Do this for about two weeks. That means oral sex and deep and heavy petting is allowed but no insertion of the penis for at least two weeks. After two weeks, you can be comfortable enough to have sex with penetration because you are so used to the idea of having sex.
3. Get additional help. Some added paraphernalia might help to maintain an erection. Penis pumps are the most common paraphernalia for maintaining an erection. There are also some creams that you can apply to increase the length of time you keep your erection. Lastly there are herbal medicines you can take to help maintain an erection. And let us not forget about the wonders of Viagra.

These are just a few ways you can maintain an erection. If you are a guy, you do not have to connect your identity to the penis. Build you confidence in your personality and who knows...your little problem may turn into a big solution, if you know what I mean.