A wedding is the best event an individual is going to experience. To ensure a perfect wedding ceremony, months and sometimes years of planning are usually spent to prepare for that moment. Conversely, the last thing that a couple is looking forward is the failure of the wedding plan and the gradual crash of the whole wedding itself.
For this reason, you should always remember that no one and nothing is perfect, and not all things will go as you and your partner have planned them. Hence, making a backup marriage plan can help you overcome all obstacles that will serve as barriers for your dream wedding ceremony. Preparedness is indeed the best remedy. Here are steps to consider in making backup wedding plans:
- Plan in advance. During your brainstorming with your partner and your wedding planner, list the possible dilemmas that you may face. With these dilemmas, think of the worst things that may occur. Choose the top three. Create two plans to avoid the top dilemmas in your list. In choosing the worst events that may occur and the avoidance planning, always remember that your main goal is still to get married.
- Assign leaders. The heads will be assigned to solve problems during the wedding day itself. Do not assign yourself as one of the heads. Remember that this is your day, and making yourself as a head will only make you feel uncomfortable and anxious all throughout the wedding ceremony. Make sure that you trust the persons that will be assigned as heads. Choose the ones that have the capacity and the skill to solve problems calmly and in an organized manner. You should make the situation clear for the heads. Inform them of their main purpose. Tell them that enjoyment is not their goal in the wedding ceremony. If they will accept the task, that is better. On the other hand, if they will refuse to do the task, do not brag about it. You can still find another heads.
- Venue. Another thing to consider is the venue for your wedding ceremony especially if your original plan is to get married outdoors. Make sure that you have other venue near your original venue. For instance, if your original venue is the beach, you may find restaurants near the beach in case it will rain on your wedding day. Do not forget that in choosing your Venue B, the foremost consideration is the number of guests that the place can accommodate. You should also consider the manpower that the place offers to accommodate the needs of your guests.
Do not let anything ruin your wedding day. However, remember not to worry too much. It will only ruin your looks. With backup plans, a perfect wedding can be done. Plan ahead, get help from your friends and family members and most importantly, do not forget the tips mentioned above.