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After dating for a few years or so, you finally found the one that you actually want to say “ I love you” to. But there is only one problem--you do not know how to tell her. Like many men, you might be afraid of either showing your sensitive side or afraid of saying the words because you do not want to get rejected. Whatever the reason, there are ways to tell her that you love her and still look adorable to her.

Here are some easy steps on how to tell her you love her:

Step 1:

Write a poem telling her how you feel or buy a card with the feelings that are within you. Though this might be considered to be like you are back in school, it is still very simple to do when you do not know how to tell someone that you love her. Make sure to end with the words “I love you.”  This way she knows that you are trying to tell her that you do love her.

Step 2:

Call her and leave a voice mail. The first time I told a woman that I loved her I called her and left a voice mail. My reason for doing this? Well, like most men I, too, was afraid of being rejected but I quickly find out that leaving a voice mail will give you the chance to say what you want to say without being nervous. Your voice – if sincere – will tell her all that you want to say.  Remember to show your true emotions as you prepare to tell her that you love her.

Step 3:

Show up at her job with roses and ask to speak to her privately. Find a place where there is no one around--just the two of you--this will give you the opportunity to be yourself so that your words can come out the way they should. When alone, be straightforward and look into her eyes. You will see that she is also nervous because she does not know what you are going to say.

Find the courage and just tell her the following, “I've dated a number of women but for some reason I could not fall in love with them, but with you it is different. Though you might not feel the same, I am in love with you and I just wanted to say that I love you.”
Be sure to give her the roses as you say that I love you. You will be surprised by her reaction to the words, "I love you."  You can use your own words but I discover that getting right to the point shows a few things. One, it shows your true feelings; two, it shows that you are nervous; and three, it shows your sweet side. These things combine can make you that much more cuter in her eyes.

Step 4:

Create a sign letting the world know that you love her. Go all out when telling her that you love her. This will create a feeling in her that will allow her to see that you do love her. To some women, this is the ultimate symbol of true love. Make sure that you truly love her.

Step 5:

Go out to a picnic and while enjoying one another's company tell her that you love her. Picnics are known to allow two people to be calm and relaxed with one another. This allows true feelings of the couple to show. Use the moment to your advantage.

These are just some of the basics of how to tell her that you love her. The objective is to find a creative solution to your problem. Find out her fantasies and use them to tell her that you love her. Your creativity on using her fantasies will go along way with her when you tell her that you love her. Just find the courage and let it all ride. Telling someone that you love them it is one of the hardest things a person can do. But if you are strong and true it can be that much easier.

Required Tools:
Heart
A creative mind
Strong will
Quick Tips:
Be yourself.
Be honest.