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How To Make Your Husband Want More Sex

Deirdre — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 13:13:09 -0500

The classic stereotype of male/female relationships is that men always want sex and women don’t. The problem with stereotypes is that they are rarely true. If you’ve found that your husband has been too tired or lacks interest lately, you may be wondering how to make your husband want more sex. Try some of these steps and you should be able to give him a boost.

How To Have Multiple Male Orgasms

thegreatsexcoach — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 11:47:06 -0500

How To Give Head

Deirdre — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 00:34:50 -0500

So many people have much to learn about giving head. It doesn’t seem to matter how often you’ve seen a blowjob in porn or been given an impromptu lesson on a bottle or banana by one of your friends; many people still get down there and suck on it like an industrial Shop Vac and think that they’re giving head!

Blowjobs are about a lot more than sucking the life out of cock or actually blowing on it. You have to think like your man to turn him on like he's never dreamed possible.

How To Have Sex

Deirdre — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 00:33:58 -0500

You’d think that how to have sex would be pretty straightforward and self-explanatory—it is completely natural, after all--but complaints from men and women alike make it clear that some step-by-step instruction can always help! Sex—good sex—is about more than the physical act alone.

Lost?

The steps in this article are a great place to start. If you’re trying to rekindle passion that seems dead, or save a relationship that you fear may be too far gone to save, you might need more in-depth advice than one article can provide. Here’s a source you can trust—an Oprah sex expert with a wealth of wisdom to share: Lovemaking Tips & Secrets.

And here's a quick review of lovemaking basics:

How To Discover the Best Sex Positions

AlexAllman — Thu, 14 Feb 2008 20:30:27 -0600

There are a lot of books and guides out there with, like, a ja-zillion sex positions...

A good many of them are anatomically impossible if you haven't been doing Yoga or gymnastics for at least 10 years, while a good many others are just uncomfortable and not particularly good for sexual enjoyment.

But you don't need to know a ja-zillion sex positions... what you want to know is:

What sex positions really work the best? Are there sex positions that are better than others for giving a female an orgasm? Are there sex positions that are better for male "staying power"? Are there lovemaking positions that can promote intimacy? Or intercourse positions for "smaller" or "larger men"? And, of course, are there sex positions that can hit the g spot or the clitoris?

Yes to all of the above.

How To Turn the Super Bowl into Super Sex

Lorats1 — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 12:29:13 -0600

I've heard nothing but complaints from my female friends this year about this coming Superbowl. It's blah blah Superbowl, blah blah the Patriots, blah blah the Giants, blah blah the Giant Patriots or WHATEVER! And all my friends are just trying to figure out ways of getting out of watching the damn game.

So this goes out to all those football widows out there. Because if you're on of those chickies who LOVES football and paints her face the colors of her football team, well then, la di friggin da to you, little Miss Perfect Woman. I bet you also have a flat head and turn into a pizza at midnight, too. This article isn't for you.

BUT...for the rest of us, who may have little or (let's be honest) NO interest in the game, Superbowl Sunday can be the biggest bore, or a total disconnect with that CREATURE we call a boyfriend/husband/Mr. Right Now...

How To Increase Your Sexual "Mojo"

AlexAllman — Wed, 16 Jan 2008 14:26:12 -0600

I get some version of this question so often that it's unbelievable... Everyone wants to know:

Is there ANY truth to the claims out there that herbs, pills, super-foods, exercises, pumps, etc. can...

Increase my libido?
Make my penis larger?
Make me last longer in bed?
In some other way to make me a big stud?

That's why I finally went ahead and wrote a Special Report on the subject... but when I get a question like this from a guy who is barely out of diapers, I realized that I've got to clear some of this up right here and now.

Check it out...

***QUESTION***

How To Eat Your Way To SENSATIONAL Sex!

Lorats1 — Thu, 03 Jan 2008 12:48:47 -0600

Face it. When I say, “FOOD and SEX” most people’s naughty little minds go straight to their own version of the movie “9 ½ Weeks.” I mean, who wouldn’t, right? I have to admit, put those two words together, and my mind wanders straight into strawberries, blindfolds and a tub full of warm, chocolate pudding… OK, maybe that’s just me.

But, there’s a LOT more to the whole food / sex relationship than just smothering it all over each other’s bodies.

Instead of screwing each other, you could be screwing yourself by WHAT you ARE or AREN’T putting in that lovely little pie hole of yours….

Think about it.

Ever felt like you sex drive is in park?

Do you ever feel just so damn tired that the idea of sex is right up there on the FUN SCALE with sliding down a fifty foot razor blade?

Has your partner become more romantically involved with the TV remote than with you?

How To Put the "Ho Ho OHH!" in Your Holidays

Lorats1 — Mon, 10 Dec 2007 15:42:46 -0600

So, you've been good all year, have ya? And now it's the holidays and you're doing all the RIGHT things:

You're getting all the presents, spending just up to your credit card limit.
You're starving yourself during the day, because you want to lose weight before Christmas, but binge out on those cookies someone brought into the office at the end of the day.
You put up the Christmas ornaments and wrestle some crazed woman to the ground for the last Hannah Montana singing doll.
You bake your weight in fudge, pie and cookies.
You kill a small forest wrapping presents.
And you bundle yourself off for a 32-hour delayed flight to see the family.

Wow, sounds SEXY. But what do you think would happen if you just changed things up a bit? If you said, FOR ONCE, "Screw nice, I want to be a little naughty!"

Sound a little fun? Intrigued?

How To Put On a Condom

genepooldesign — Mon, 26 Nov 2007 14:48:47 -0600

I can't overstress the importance of protecting yourself these days, from learning self defense to taking a first aid course or, most of all, using a condom. Here, we'll discuss the latter. Many people simply don't know the correct way to use them, and that can lead to accidents or unnecessary time lost during those intimate moments.

I also want to stress that the purpose of a condom is not just for birth control, though it does help. A condom serves as the barrier between your bodily fluids and those of your partner(s). The condom is an important line of defense against venereal diseases. Be aware, though, that you can't depend solely on the mighty condom. Please talk to your family doctor to get the facts and further advice to be more informed. Without further ado, here is how to put on a condom.

How To Get a Man To Tie You Up in Bed

AlexAllman — Wed, 21 Nov 2007 16:55:08 -0600

Believe it or not, this is a fairly common question that I get from my female readers. Maybe the most difficult part of the problem is that it can be hard to admit to your partner that you even have this desire...even hard to admit to yourself. It's the kind of fantasy that makes some women think: "Oh no, is there something wrong with me? Do I have self-esteem issues? Am I sexually messed up?"

No.

Being tied up, or some variation of being "out of control" sexually is one of the most common of all female fantasies. So first let's look at the reason that so many women enjoy this fantasy...

How To Get Your Wife to Give You a Blow Job

Lorats1 — Thu, 15 Nov 2007 13:38:30 -0600

I know, guys. I feel your pain. It’s as if Christmas disappeared when you were a kid. Santa forgot where you lived. Or as if cable no longer had sports channels. The volume on your hardcore stereo system only goes to “2.” Home Depot has suddenly stopped selling tools, all beer is non alcoholic and has the taste of Brussels sprouts.

You’re just not getting any blow jobs at home.

You poor baby. You had no idea that when you put that ring on your bride’s finger, it would magically take away her willingness to give you, shall we say, mouth hugs?

Or maybe you’re just in a long term relationship that has lost that loving feeling. And short of leaving a banana peel on the floor and hoping she trips and falls mouth first onto your erection, what’s a horny boy to do?

Listen to Mama Lora, that’s what. So if you want to have your lady more eager to devour your manhood, then read on…

How To Be Great in Bed

Lorats1 — Thu, 15 Nov 2007 12:44:57 -0600

Imagine being a fly in the wall of your man’s head. (I know there are no flies or walls,
just go with it, will ya?) What does he think about you and your sexual abilities? What if it’s something like THIS:

“Oh, that (insert your name here). She sure is just OK. I kinda don’t mind the fact that we just do the same thing every time in bed. I can totally predict what we’re going to do, all 5 minutes of it. And she’s about as enthusiastic as my accountant. So am I. Occasionally, she even plays a supporting role in my sexual fantasies. I’m so lucky to have an “it’ll do” sex life…”

Um, WHAT? Did I get your attention? Yeah, it’s horrible to think that your man may be just “satisfied” with your “sexpertise.” It’s even worse to think that YOU’RE less than thrilled as well.

How To Keep Your Man From Cheating

Lorats1 — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 13:01:36 -0500

I've heard this so many times. I've seen it plastered on women's faces, like some sort of billboard of pain. I wiped away my own tears about it in the past.

It's ugly, it's isolating. It's shaming.

And it's everywhere.

That bug.

That "I can't keep it in my pants" bug.

And it seems like it just strikes out of nowhere. Like a flu. As if your man could get sneezed on, and the next thing you know, he has some tramp's legs around his waist.

YEAH, I SAID IT!

And if you've been there, you've thought it yourself.

And it kind of goes like this:

How To Touch a Woman to Drive Her Wild

AlexAllman — Wed, 24 Oct 2007 19:22:26 -0500

Obviously, everything about great sex involves touching. Really mastering the subtleties of touching is one of the best ways to really explode a woman's ideas of just how amazing sex can be. The thing that I really love about the "idea" of touching a girl, is that the sensation travels in both directions. She gets the pleasure of feeling your hands on her skin, and you get the pleasure of feeling her skin with your hands. And when you are both really in tune with that exchange of pleasure, it can be absolutely awesome.

So what is the best way to touch a woman?

It depends on the woman. I'm going to explain EXACTLY what you need to know to figure it out for your woman.

There are a few important keys to touching that can let her know, INSTANTLY that you know exactly what you are doing-- and get her powerfully aroused.

How To Join The Mile High Club

Lorats1 — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:59:42 -0500

So my man and I are flying home from New York to Los Angeles last week, when I think, you know, it's about time we join the Mile High Club.

For those of you who don't know what the Mile High Club is, it's when you have sex on a plane.

(Ohhhhhhhhhh Yeah, cue the porn music now.)

Now, before I go any further... may I just be the responsible chickie here by saying you can get into SERIOUS trouble if you get caught by the flight attendants. I think you could even get arrested. Naughty, naughty!

So, if you get caught and they make you fly the rest of way home, naked, holding on to the wing, well don't blame me, you've been warned.

BUT, "hypothetically" if you want to make the friendly skies just that much more friendly, well, then here's a few things to keep in mind (insert evil laugh here...)

How To Prolong Your Sex Life

premansu_chand — Wed, 17 Oct 2007 23:11:20 -0500

Generally, those who talk about spiritualism or religious discourses don't talk about sex. In most religions, sex is considered as a wrong or negative action, if not a sin. For this reason, many of those who devote their lives to the service of God keep themselves away from sex. However, ancient Indian saints and sages who gave great spiritual knowledge to mankind were all married. Their future generations also led ascetic lives and gave further spiritual knowledge; sex was not a taboo for them. This is because they were truly spiritual. They had realized Self and acted in accordance with what Self wanted. There were no religious dictates or inhibitions. So we should give up blind prejudices against sex and accept the virtues of sex.

Looking for the most comprehensive sex guide on the internet? We recommend Sex God Secrets.

How To Give a Blow Job

Lorats1 — Thu, 11 Oct 2007 17:46:47 -0500

How confident are YOU with your oral loving skills? Would you say, without hesitation, that you are a rockin' sex kitten and you make your man's eyes roll into the back of his head every time?

What do you think HE'D say?

Not so sure? Yeah, I get it. Read on...

There are plenty of ladies out there that are just kind of flying blindly when it comes to giving oral sex and plenty of guys who don’t tell them because they’re just so happy to be getting any at all!

Why not be SURE that you're pleasing your man?

As a sex columnist, the NUMBER ONE question I get from women is how to perform oral sex that will knock a man's socks off... And the number one COMPLAINT I get from men is that their women don't know what they're doing "downtown." Well, I'm going to share some simple tips you need to know that will keep your man worshipping the sex goddess that you are!

How To Give a Woman an Orgasm in 3 Simple Steps

AlexAllman — Mon, 08 Oct 2007 13:54:12 -0500

There are many, many things that you can do (or that she can do to herself) that will give her an orgasm... and I'll bet that over the years, couples have come up with all kinds of very strange and amazing techniques of their own that they enjoy and that are specific to their relationship.

But I'm looking for the ESSENTIALS... the most important factors that are underneath ALL of the best techniques... Not just the technique itself, but WHY it works. The idea is to be able to explain to guys EXACTLY how and why these things work so that they can confidently make any woman experience amazing sexual pleasure in bed.

One of the things that KILLS sexual tension, attraction, and arousal in a woman is when you are TRYING TOO HARD TO PLEASE HER.

How To Tell When She's Faking an Orgasm

Lorats1 — Thu, 27 Sep 2007 14:44:19 -0500

Ah. Another glorious Saturday night and you’re in the mood. So instead of old Saturday Night Live reruns, you look at her, she looks at you and the clothes go flying. Oh yeah, my friend, you’re getting some tonight. A little smooching here, a little feel up there and then the fun really begins. You’re gonna make her see stars. So you work your magic, all parts of your body bringing her to the edge of ecstasy and then pushing her right off.

She’s gasping and moaning. Toes curling and hair straightening.

And with one big squeal, she collapses into a puddle of contentment.

That’s right, you big stud, you took care of your woman, but good.

OR SO YOU THINK.

Has your woman gotten the big “O” from your expert movin’ and groovin’ or is she a better faker than Meg Ryan’s character in “When Harry Met Sally?”

How To Buy Condoms

Tiny Dancer — Thu, 09 Aug 2007 23:08:57 -0500

Condoms. Just about everybody buys them at some point, and just about everybody gets embarrassed, confused or frustrated by the experience. Many men and women feel ashamed buying condoms because of our cultural attitudes labeling sex as dirty, and certainly not something to flaunt in public. That's a shame, because except for a few test tube babies, sex is how each and every one of us got here! Others find themselves confused by the variety of condoms available, or are frustrated by past experiences that didn't go so well. So let's talk condoms and clear up some of the confusion--it'll go a long way toward clearing up any reluctance you might have about using one, and hopefully spruce up your sex life as well. Sex is a good thing--and knowing your condoms can be a great way to add a boost to your sex life and protect yourself and your lucky sex partner from horrible things like children and disease!

How To Know If He's Only Interested in Sex

Vanessa264 — Tue, 12 Jun 2007 15:00:12 -0500

Girlfriends, we all know that men and women both are sometimes looking for sex only (that’s what CraigsList is for). But for those of you looking for something more, beware the signs of a man looking for sex only.

How To Use "Baby Making" Positions During Intercourse

Theresa157 — Tue, 09 May 2006 08:13:00 -0500

While there has been little research done on the actual sexual positions that aid conception, there are some recommended positions for conceiving. Basically, positions that allow deep penetration and don't force the semen to work against gravity are best. In addition, according to old wives' tales, some positions are better than others for conceiving a specific gender.