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Words can be used to destroy and build. In the beginning the Creator used words to create all that we see and hear. And God said, let there be light and there was light (Gen 1:3).
In our daily lives words have been either misplaced or used inappropriately, thus causing undesirable results. I therefore take this humble oppportunity to share with you how your words can turn out to be your reward.
Speak positively about yourself and your situation.
Speaking well about yourself is different from bragging. This means encouraging yourself about circumstances in your daily life. Interestingly your ears are not meant to hear from others only but also listen to your words. In the Bible, King David had developed a habit of talking to himself and his situation. He usually spoke to his body, mind and soul. In Psalms 103:1 David says,” Bless the Lord O my soul and all that is within me, bless His Holy name,” and he continues to encourage himself telling what God has done to his life.
As a person reading this article, cultivate the altitude of speaking positively and encouraging yourself no matter the situation. Tell yourself that though the task ahead isn’t easy, you will manage. You might be bankrupt, surrounded by court cases or bed ridden with a deadly disease -- encourage yourself, speak positive to your body and mind and they shall listen to you. It is called the power of a spoken word. Your body is likely to react to your mindset. Telling yourself negative words in the name of consoling yourself will only worsen the situation. Encourage yourself in the Lord and it is my prayer and hope that you will cultivate this and make it part of your lifestyle.
Use nice words towards other people.
Have you ever met people who can spit harsh, rude and unpleasant words? Have you ever argued with someone hurling insults and threats at you? If you met them stranded, would you offer assistance however little? There arises a need to weigh the language and words to you use if you ever desire to live a better life. Use the best language and tone to drive the point home. I have read some books by Dale Carnegie and my advice to you is that nice word can open great doors for you. Whether you are angry or provoked, use nice words just in case you are told to eat your words later. Let them not be bitter.
In order to correct the utterances of one of His prophets, God sent and angel to put hot coal on Isaiah’s mouth to change his words (Isaiah 6:6). Earlier in that chapter Isaiah the prophet had confessed of having unclean lips (Isaiah 6:5). From there the prophet was able to be sent by God and his work was a success.
Talking in an unpleasant manner won’t get you anywhere in any case -- it will only create more enemies including the onlookers.
Have few words.
If you become a person of few words, you may avoid making as many mistakes. And like I said earlier you will be judged by what you say. Being a person of few words simply means speaking at the appropriate time, speaking appropriate things and a targeting an appropriate audience. In Proverbs 17:28 King Solomon had this to say:” Even a fool who keeps quiet shall be counted among the wise, and he that his mouth shall be esteemed a man of understanding. By waiting for an opportunity or by weighing the volume of your words, it is unlikely that you will make a mistake. Whenever people perceive that you can pass across some valuable message, they will respect and give you another opportunity.
Show appreciation by words.
A man's belly shall be satisfied with the fruits of his mouth, and with the increase of his lips he will be filled (Proverbs18:20). When you get some favors from someone, tell them you really appreciate them. Tell people that you appreciate their time, or their things or their advice. I'm encouraged to write because of people who write to me and tell they appreciate my articles. Telling people that their help was appreciated makes them happy and willing to do it again. In case you are unable to meet to tell them, write and thank them with your words.
