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Puberty in Boys

Staff468 — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 16:33:45 -0500

Puberty, in boys, usually comes between the ages of 9 to 14. During this time, a child experiences physical and emotional changes. In this process, the child transforms into an adult, becomes mature and ready for reproduction. These changes manifest themselves differently in both sexes. Changes in boys during puberty will be discussed in this article.

The following are the changes that boys undergo during puberty:

Puberty in Girls

Staff468 — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 10:54:07 -0500

Puberty is the condition when nature works to changes kids into grown-ups. Both boys and girls undergo stages of puberty as part of the development of the reproductive organs. However, girls experience puberty at earlier age than boys do. Puberty is caused by reproductive hormones. The female hormone, estrogen, is the main hormone that triggers these changes in girls during this stage.

Puberty brings about changes in a girl's height and weight. At age nine, most girls reach 17% to 18% of their adult height. They may even reach their peak height six months before they even have their first menstrual period. More body fat is stored in the upper arms, thighs, and lower back. The hips become wider and rounder and the waist becomes narrower. This gives a more feminine shape to a girl's body.

How To Handle Teen Smoking

Staff468 — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 11:31:27 -0500

Recent years have shown how aggressive marketing can be, and alongside that, marketing of cigarette and tobacco use has seen the increase in the number of smokers. Even more alarming, more and more teenagers are smoking, based on statistics. Studies also show that nearly all occurrence of tobacco use starts before the senior year in high school; the time when most teens are subject to peer pressure. Needless to say, cigarette smoking is indeed life threatening, and even second-hand smoke kills. As established by facts, the government and health experts have been consistent in the health effects and dangers of nicotine.

Noting that cigarette use is habit-forming or causes an addiction, it is best to curb this habit among teens, and there are a number ways a responsible adult can do that.

How To Handle Discipline Problems

Tiffany — Sat, 02 May 2009 20:27:58 -0500

When Your Daughter Hates Sports

gonzo — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 16:30:41 -0500

Your daughter is a pre-teen, and she currently has hordes of teddy bears and play houses in her room. She seldom plays outside with her friends. She'd rather stay inside her room, and play with her beloved dolls, or get online and chat with friends. It seems that your daughter isn't acquiring any interest when in comes to sports. And you are also slowly noticing that your daughter gets heavier each passing month. Don't get upset, because we have some helpful hints to help your daughter attain an interest in sports and keeping fit.

Ideas for Making Your Kid's Season a Winner

gonzo — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 16:13:54 -0500

Involving your kids in any kind of sports he/she likes can help them to improve their self-esteem as they grow. Sports enhance not only your children's physical capabilities, but also their mental sharpness and awareness. Sport activities are often managed by a set of rules or traditions, and often participants are required to be engaged competitively. Sports also involves stretching the physical capacity of the competitors. And in addition to these lessons, most competitive sports impart the values of discipline and fair play.

Here are some ideas that can make your kid's season a winner:

How To Help Your Teen Cope with His/Her First Job

Staff468 — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 12:06:07 -0500

Everybody needs a job; it is a way to earn money on your own. For teenagers, it is the start of maturity, and social worth. Getting one's first job is particularly difficult for teenagers, but it can be an unforgettable moment in their lives. As parents, how can you help your teen cope with her first job?

How To Talk to Your Gifted Child

Staff468 — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 11:43:22 -0500

If you think that you have a gifted child, and people around you confirm that your child is really gifted, ask the nearest school to help you bring your child to a professional for a test. Leave it up to school procedures on what they will do in recognizing that your child is really gifted. Then plan to do the rest on your own:

How To Teach Your Son About Love

Staff468 — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 17:11:58 -0500

Fathers impact their children’s lives. They should teach them more than solving math assignments—including something about powerful emotions like love. The role of a father is the most significant responsibility a man can fulfill. Fathers should aspire to raise their sons as men of character. To do so, they must recognize the key characteristics that sons need from their fathers.

Teach your son to be a caring man, and be an example at home. Stress the principles of love and respect. If these are present at home, your son will grow up to be a caring man and a respectable adult.

Avoid any arguments in front of your children. Destructive words lack love and respect. Parents discuss issues behind close doors. If there is shouting and hitting in your house, the children will think this behavior is acceptable.

Show affection to your children and spouse.

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Help Children of Divorce Cope with Holidays

Staff468 — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 18:53:31 -0500

When parents separate, the children are often on the losing end. They are the ones affected most, and the transition is difficult. Holidays after divorce are most difficult to deal with. This is the time when the family ordinarily plans out of town trips, picnics, or just holiday treats for the children.

To help the children cope, the parent who keeps the children should reassure them that both their parents will provide love and stability throughout their lives. Being a single parent, the burden is now yours to help your children cope with the new situation.