Approaching and Attracting Girls - Dating coach Alex Coulson shares tips on how to attract the ladies to you, and how to approach women.

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Back to warm up. Now I've got a friend. Is anyone you've heard of sweater from the game right up overhead? Yeah, he is this 51 year old living in Brisbane. He will crack on to his 52 this year. He would crack on to 60 roads for the fun of it. We were there in elevators, this is actually really funny. We were in hotel down in Marriott hotel down in Circular Quay, and we were going up to his room, and we were in this elevator, we were standing there, and the door was about to shut, and we see these two all whities doing, 'oh, yeah, got it, got it all.' With the walking sticks and they are coming in and then, they stand in the elevator and turns around, that's better, he turns around, and he goes, wow, two attractive girls like you in the elevator I should feel so privileged. And I just note him ahead thinking what's he doing? What ways he is trying to take this, is he trying to impress me, because he's not, and afterwards, I quietly said, I said, what're you doing, man? I like you know in a funny way of course. He goes out, Alex, I warm up, I have to warm up all the time. If I don't warm up, I am going to see that beautiful hot 20 something blond in the street and I am not going to be in the mood to approach her. I am not in a state and the thing is his mentality, he doesn't want an outcome from people. He just want to make the day, making smile, making feel good, and if he does that, it's an amazing spirit when he does see that the right one, the teen, he is teen, he is the one, he is going to be ready to walk up and talk to her. Throughout the day, you are going to do a lot of sets. You are going to approach the girl, and then it's going to be a time lapse. It might be like 20, it could be two minutes, it could be five minutes, it could be 20 minutes, to do the next approach. And there is the pros and cons of this. When you are in a bar or a club, it's like 50 women in the bar, and you approach and approach and approach, and you are running around like a squirrel, drinking coffee, like some sort of writing, ecstasy. You are approaching so many women is not funny, but if you are in the day, it's not like that. You are walking up to a girl and you are doing approach and then you are walking around the shopping mall by yourself, like the next 20 minutes, and those 20 minutes are critical because you stopped thinking yourself, you stopped the negative little devil comes in one shot and stop some saying, good enough. Alex, you are loser, that approach was terrible. It happens, it happens with me a lot, and the key to getting over that is, -- is there anyone here who have an iPod? Yeah, so it's going to be a fun, you have an iPod. Okay, you got to have one person in the back that is on iPod okay. Don't shake these days, you can buy mp3 players for like 20 bucks. Listen to an iPod, listen to your favorite music, your favorite band, and every time you do an approach, you got your iPod, you see a girl, you take it off, you run over that, and you do the approach, hi! Quickly my opinion, blah-blah-blah cool. Put them back in, run to the other side.