Learn how to be happy as a single on your own, and how to properly assess your life as an individual when you are not in a relationship.

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Leila: Tired of being single? Why? Hi welcome to watchmojo.com. I am your host Leila. Let us go inside and talk to Singles Coach Terri Giosia who explains why grooving solo can be the time of your life. What exactly does being single have to do with being unhappy? Terri: Ah my goodness I wish I could with a wave of a magic single wand to change all that. We are sort of brain washed into thinking that if we are alone and single it is a bad thing. I really try to assist people with seeing single as the best time in their life. Being single is not a transitional period in your life. It is not you know I am going out with John then we broke up and I am waiting for Frank to come along. We come into the world single because we are individuals so we should remain that individual for the rest of our life no matter who we are with. Leila: Because a lot of people are in relationships and even more unhappy than single people? Terri: A hundred percent a lot of people are not alone because they were afraid to be single. So they stay in bad relationships out of habit, out of fear. I really would like to touch a little bit on the three great answers to give to a forever popular question. The number one which is my favorite okay? So somebody ask you “Are you seeing someone?” and you say, “No I am single and loving yet” are you aware that the cheating statistics in North America have doubled in the last 10 years? That will shut up somebody right away. Number two, I am single and loving it so I can do as I please. Third one no I am single and loving it so I can pursued. Leila: Definitely a very nosy question. Terri: Very nosy question.