Coach Amy Applebaum discusses individuals who feel they need permission in order to be productive and happy, and how we can grant permission to ourselves.

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Amy Applebaum: I often times come across clients who need permission to do something. The problem really is that they are not giving themselves permission. One very sophisticated articulates distinguish a successful 60 year old man who is done with the corporate world and disparately want to go with them. He was really afraid to go with them because he had band the myth and what he is afraid off was looking back making mistakes, not being successful so this is all a lot around confidence and being attached to particular outcome. And when he can control with the outcome going to be and he is not going to step in. So, a lot of out work was around this notion of giving him permission. Having him a learn that it is okay to make mistakes he had to accept and refrain all of his beliefs around what success actually means. Powerful men, powerful story he ended watching his owned company and three months later it is taking off. Their is no such things is failure in the feedback and as far as I am concern that is one of the most powerful beliefs that a person can own because when own that failure dos not excess in your world and you actually true his say. I believe that failure does not excess and you are available for feedback and you can get all the information that you need to shift who ever it is that you are going.